Raising trans kids in Trump's D.C.

Plus, a beloved D.C. ice rink faces an uncertain future, the Commanders get their stadium, and more news.

Hi everyone,

This week, we're publishing our first story in partnership with The 19th: A look at what it's like for parents raising trans kids in D.C. right now, directly in Trump's backyard. Five families spoke with us about the challenges of getting their children medical care, worries about potential changes in school policy, and fears for their children's safety.

We're also bringing you a feature about the beloved Fort Dupont ice rink, which is facing opening delays after issues with its $40 million rebuild.

We've got updates from the Wilson Building for you (surprise: the Commanders got their stadium), a column about how the Federal Bureau of Prisons is failing D.C. residents, and, per usual, things to do this weekend and ways to get involved in your community.

Plus: Scroll down to weigh in on how you're talking about this political moment with your children, or other young people in your life.

That's all for now,

Natalie


What it's like to raise trans kids in the D.C. area right now

 Brian reads on a couch as his daughter looks out the window behind him in their living room.
Brian and his daughter at their home in Arlington, Virginia. (Shedrick Pelt)

The 19th and The 51st spoke with five families in the D.C. region struggling to protect their kids as the Trump administration undercuts access to gender affirming care. Many of their struggles are exacerbated by being in the federal government's backyard.

“We deserve to live here. She deserves to live here,” one parent said. “No trans person is asking for more rights. Just stop picking on us. Stop picking on them.” 


Frozen out: Beloved D.C. ice rink faces uncertain future after $40 million rebuild

(Martin Austermuhle)

The problems became clear earlier this month, when the stalagmites appeared. These mineral formations are a natural curiosity in a cave, but in an ice rink they’re a problem — especially after a $40 million renovation.


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Wilson Building Bulletin: The Commanders get their stadium

Demolition of RFK stadium will continue into next year. The upper decks were recently removed. (Martin Austermuhle)

It wasn’t really in doubt going into Wednesday’s final vote, but there were still sighs of relief and scattered applause in the D.C. Council’s chambers after lawmakers gave final approval to the $3.7 billion deal to bring the Washington Commanders back to D.C. – and into a 65,000-seat roofed stadium at the old RFK site.


Opinion: The Federal Bureau of Prisons fails D.C. residents

(Jennifer Grismer/Unsplash)

D.C. doesn’t have its own prison, so its residents are sent to federal facilities all over the country. This is a bad system that serves no one, writes incarcerated resident Askia Afrika-Ber.


Live in Ward 7? 🍦🍨

Illustration that says "The 51st presents and End of summer ice cream social", along with the date, time and place.
Join The 51st on Saturday, September 20 for a FREE ICE CREAM SOCIAL! Swing by Benning/Dorothy Height Library 12-3 p.m. (Illustration by George Kevin Jordan)

ICYMI: Kids back in school, council back in session

The D.C. Council is back. Here’s what lawmakers are up to.
Trayon White returns, final votes on the Commanders stadium deal, and a controversial housing bill.

The 51st team has heard from a few readers who said their children are struggling emotionally in this challenging moment — for example, having nightmares after seeing armed National Guard in their neighborhood. This led us to wonder: What strategies have you found to support your kids? And what information might help you to do a better job — or even just reassure you that you're doing the best you can? Weigh in below.


21 (!) things to do around D.C. this weekend

Batalá Washington, shown here in 2019, hosts "Be a Drummer for a Day" on Saturday, September 20. (Ted Eytan/Wikimedia Commons)

Choose your own adventure: Brazilian drumming? '90s nostalgia? A clay festival?


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Tree love: Your weekly Civics Roundup

(Katja Schulz/Flickr)

Plus, "enter the villa" for a cause and learn about resistance from Star Wars.


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See you next week.

Natalie